How to use schedules with young children

Family schedules don't just help ensure a smooth learning environment for your child! They can also help your family spend more time together, times that are free of stress because you've set up routines as a proactive way to stay ahead in the game of life. And they build confidence not only in your little one but in all family members, since everyone knows what to expect and when.

 

Just follow these easy steps to use a family schedule:

 

1 | Decide whether you'd like to make a full-day schedule or one each for the morning and evening. Every family is different; for yours, mornings and evenings may be especially hectic, so you may decide to use only the morning/evening titles to help everyone get out the door in the morning and back in the door at the end of the day! Or as a stay-at-home parent, grandparent or home school teacher, you may find a full-day schedule benefits you most. Click here for the example I have provided is an all-day schedule for my four year old son (during the summer). Younger children (toddlers and two-year olds) would need less activities in each time period or a reduced number of time periods.

 

2 | Click here for the family schedules icon page (must have Microsoft Word to open and copy these images) save the images you want to use on your schedule and arrange them into a word document. You can use the time of day icons on the top (as I did) or down the left-hand side to read the activities across.

 

3 | For an easy way to begin, start with the times everyone wakes, eats, and sleeps. As you add tasks around those times, though, resist the urge to be too ambitious at first! Stick to fewer activities until your family and little one become accustomed to following the new routine. Allow plenty of time for your child to wash and dress, especially if that's new to him.

 

4 | If possible, rotate responsibilities with your partner, especially your child's bedtime routine, as this will increase his trust in both parents. Also, if you have capable older children, consider enlisting their help with some of the younger children's routines.

 

5 | Talk about your schedule as a family so that everyone knows what's happening and who is responsible for which activity. (Within a few weeks, your child may surprise you by reminding you, "Look at my schedule mommy, its time for my bath!") If other caregivers help take care of your family, talk the schedules through with them, too. If your schedule works for everyone, it will be easier to follow.

 

Don't be afraid to be creative! The sky is the limit with our "make your own" choice. Use these schedules to help you set aside time for fun family activities, prepare for the next day, limit the amount of television time, get the housework done, or ensure Mommy and Daddy have "grown up" time.